I have spent a few days facilitating workshops that began with a celebrity speaker – Mark Inglis. The first and, I think, the only double amputee to reach the summit of Mt Everest – and return safely. I thoroughly enjoyed the story of Mark’s adventures although wasn’t inspired to follow in his footsteps! The risks are too high for me. I don’t want to remain snap-frozen near the summit if things don’t go to plan. I have other things to do that require that I remain closer to room temperature!
Anyway, one of the things Mark said got me thinking. He said he lost 10 years of his life by believing what others said to him. And underestimating what he could achieve. He mentioned this quote.
“Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.” TS Eliot
I think this applies as much to leadership and communication as it does to life itself.
For leaders and everyone, it’s important to:
- risk sharing our own vulnerability
- risk setting high expectations
- risk showing our emotion
- risk being intimate (business appropriate!)
- risk stepping outside our own comfort zone
- risk failing
- risk stepping outside our own preconceptions of ‘who we are’.
Time and again I find when coaching people – a capacity to be much bigger/better than we thought. It seems that we always end up finding that we can go far indeed.